Wednesday, July 22, 2009

Life In Relationships

I seem to have suddenly found myself in a relationship. In the very early hours of sunday morning I was asked out, by late that night I told him yes, and it's been going smoothly since then. I was at a place with myself where I was enjoying single life and the feeling of freedom, but after a lot of thinking I decided that was not worth missing an opportunity like this for. It was no good reason to turn down a fantastic guy. A lot of my decision was based on some advice a friend gave me when we discussed what was going on between this guy and I previously. The whole thing's been going a while, a few people have said "it's about time" when they've heard the news. Anyway, the friend's advice was good and I think worth listening to. I was surprised when this particular person said, "do you want to talk about it." when I mentioned confusion. He's not the talkative type, but he was brilliant. I couldn't have asked for better advice.
When I said yes I have to admit I was still unsure, and felt I was leaping into the unknown and may pull the safety line and climb back out at any minute. That didn't happen at all. Three days in and I am absolutely happy in my decision. I'm happy with how things are now. My guy is fantastic. We took a lot of fussing around and confusion getting there, but now we are together I'm sure we're both happy we are. Of course now I feel like a total sap writing all that happy together stuff, but I am truly in a good mood.
Now I have things to do so a certain person will not kill me tomorrow for forgetting to bring him things for a third day running. I am going to gather DVDs to loan right now!

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