Don't you hate it when...

Don't you hate it when, you try to tell someone something because you think it's fair for them to know and it might change their mind about something because of it, and then it just turns into a weird kind of argument, with them getting defensive and acting as though you're just trying to ruin things? Ok... so maybe that's not an everyday "don't you hte it when..." situation. But it happened, and it's really stupid. I tried to tell a girl some things about a guy she likes. I don't think he should be dating anyone because of particular things. Not now, something needs to change before he's relationship material. She got really defensive and was all, "But I do like him! And I don't care!" And now I think she's mad at me, which is sad since I do get on with her. I really hope she moves on from this guy first. She doesn't need to be another in his line of stupid weird relationships that shouldn't have ever started.
There's angry rant one done. How about another?
Don't you hate it when, someone is basically obsessed with you, but you get on with them as a friend so you still hang out and party together... And you just have to keep on making them back off a bit, keep distance when sitting next to each other or dancing... And then because there aren't huge numbers of beds three people, including you and this obsessed guy, end up in a double bed together. So I made sure my other friend was inbetween us, because I'm utterly comfortable around him. But then Obsessoman keeps doing things like putting his arm across my friend so he's touching me. I kept pushing him off of me but he just wouldn't get the picture, so I was all, "Can you keep your hands back? They're kinda annoying there." And I think he was pretty cut by that but still didn't really get the message. He is so pushy. For ages it's all fine, and he won't be bothering me. Then there will be a night like that one and I feel gross and kind of how I would if I were being stalked and I just want to get away from him and not see him. And yes, he's the one I tried to warn the poor girl in the story above about. Don't you all agree, he should not be dating anyone, until he loses that Obsessoman suit.